There is no value in thinking about things that you cannot do anything about right now. Such thoughts will solve nothing and only lead to anguish. Focus your thoughts on that which you do have control over and leave the rest for another day. This does not mean to avoid the issues you must address, but rather to take a bite size approach...
"To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance" - Oscar Wilde
The first challenge in self loving is to stay in your own head. If you think about being self loving and immediately focus on what everyone else will say, think and do, you will defeat yourself before you begin...
