When our love tank is filled, when we feel really loved by the people that are important to us, the world looks brighter and we can navigate difficulties and differences in a positive way. On an empty love tank, hard conversations become confrontations...
Take a close look at that negative statement you so often say to yourself and see how true it is. For instance, if your overriding thought is, ‘I’m never going to be able to make it on my own", how is this going to make you feel? Actually, how true is that statement?
There is no value in thinking about things that you cannot do anything about right now. Such thoughts will solve nothing and only lead to anguish. Focus your thoughts on that which you do have control over and leave the rest for another day. This does not mean to avoid the issues you must address, but rather to take a bite size approach...
By Karen McMahon Can you see the light at the end of the tunnel? Divorce is the most emotionally devastating life transition you can experience, second only to the loss of a loved one. That’s a pretty powerful statement. It makes sense that you are not yourself; that you are on edge. Perhaps you feel filled with uncertainty and […]