Guest Post by Terri Sloane
If you have been married for a long time the thought of dating again can be a daunting and the idea of flirting uncomfortable.
You may even be saying to yourself, “Since I haven’t been on a date in so long I’m a bit scared. I don’t even know how do I get started.” Don’t panic!!! There is an immediate solution to this question. The answer is to start FLIRTING again. It’s about having fun in the presence of another person. Remember, you flirted with your X and enjoyed it then. And you will enjoy yourself even more now. Just be open to the wonderful surprises and possibilities that await you.
Below are four of my favorite flirting tips to help you get started:
- Smile. It’s your best beauty accessory. It instantly welcomes connection and dialogue when you meet someone.
- Make sure you look someone in the eyes when you to talk to them.
- And if you are sitting next to someone lean forward a bit when your talking be the initiator of a conversation. Just a simple “hello”, a compliment , would be very inviting to a man. Sometimes they are too shy to approach you.
- And finally, my best tip…Men like women who like them so don’t be afraid to show a man that you like him.
May the flirting begin. And while your out flirting and having fun you may even meet “Mr. Next”.
Happy Flirting!!!
For the past 18 years Terri Sloane has been doing Professional Matchmaking. She has also been doing dating coaching, and presenting workshops at the renowned 92nd Street Y in New York. She specializes in on “How to re enter dating” for the 40 plus single.. Terri helps women develop a strategic social plan on how to obtain what they want in their social life, with the focus being on them and finding solutions. If you are newly single Terri can help you address your new single status and move forward to being happily single or coupled.www.terrisloane.com www.introductionsbyts.com
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