By Lisa Brick What do you want? Once divorce is settled, life has become more predictable, and you are feeling ready to open yourself up to meeting new people the next step is often asking yourself what you want now, why you want it, and how you can intentionally create it? Something is missing though, […]
By Lisa Brick Divorce is a lonely and isolating process initially yet it does not have to remain that way. As confusing and painful as splitting up a marriage, a family, and a life can be, with the appropriate support the experience can be one of clarity, growth, and confidence. While this may sound impossible, […]
By Lisa Brick It is during agonizing and challenging times that the support of others is the most necessary and appreciated, and often the most difficult to find. It is painful enough to lose a spouse but to find those who you considered pals and confidants MIA (missing in action) on top of everything else […]
By Lisa Brick YOU are the kingpin of your life, the main axle, the engine, the foundation…not a significant other, not your kids, not your parents, not your relatives, and not your friends. YOU are the most important person in your life and therefore the primary person to maintain yourself well. The 7 Secrets […]
By Lisa Brick & Karen McMahon What if the dissolution of a marriage could be a crash course in discovering outdated and limiting belief systems and thought patterns about life, love, relationships, family, and money and letting them go forever? Would your pain have less sting and more promise if you could discover what you […]
By Trent Hand I have a confession to make. I’m not always proud of this and it’s something my wife has been dealing with for a few years now, helping me work through it. Really, I’ve struggled with this since childhood and to a large degree I feel I learned this from my father, though […]
By Lisa Brick Divorce is stress season, no matter when it is occurring. While you can’t make someone who is out the door stay or stay when everything in you is pushing you out the door, you can choose to strategically reinforce your body’s capabilities of handling stress through your choices of which foods to […]
This is a guest post by David Feder, BA, BSW, MSW, RSW You discovered your spouse cheated and you wonder “what do I do now?” This is a difficult time and talking with your cheating spouse may be the last thing you feel like doing. You want safety by disengaging from your spouse because engaging […]
By Lisa Brick There are obvious differences in perspectives and opinions between people. How individuals approach their perspectives and opinions determines how much emotional and financial carnage they’ll experience as they navigate their way through divorce.
During extreme change we lose track of what we are capable of and our value as human beings. Our worlds and our self perceptions get turned upside down and inside out. What we knew to be true has become false. What we counted on as solid has turned liquid and drained away. There is fear […]
