The universal response today to the question, "how are you" is "BUSY!" With laptops and i phones, texting and IM'ing, high speed internet access and instant everything, why do we have less time then ever before? Even our children are over stressed, 'scheduling in' time to play with their friends. Where is the balance in your life?
If you do not love yourself, you will be looking to ‘get’ that which you feel you are lacking from others and will surely be disappointed. It is when we are insecure with ourselves that we look for someone else to ‘complete’ us or ‘fill us up’ or ‘make us happy’. A relationship based on needing another’s attention, admiration or love to feel complete is a recipe for heartbreak...
As we look for a partner in life that we can love, interesting things begin to happen. At first, we are blissfully consumed by the other person. They make us feel strong and sexy, fulfilled and needed, etc. But after a time, we may find ourselves...
The only thing that we truly have control over… Many people go through life complaining about what is not fair, trying to control other people’s actions through their own, getting upset about things that happen and reacting to situations that are unpleasant. The bottom life is that life happens and we often cannot control it. But the one thing […]
Faith is more powerful than proof Faith is believing when you cannot see. When we walk in faith we put aside logic and mental chatter and empower our intuition. In doing so, we open ourselves up to divine wisdom and the perfect unfolding of our life circumstances. In 12 step programs the saying is “let […]
By Karen McMahon Do you believe that you intrinsically know what makes you happy; the type of career, relationship or lifestyle that you desire? We all do, but many of us wake up one day to realize that we are not living the life we were designed for. What’s your pot of gold at […]
“I have not failed; I’ve found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” – Thomas Edison From the smallest to the biggest ‘mistakes’ of our lives come the lessons and opportunities for our greatest growth. It is never in the times of ease that we stretch and grow, but rather through the challenges we face that we […]
“A purpose can be found in everything that happens” No matter what happens, a purpose can be found in it. How can you look at the difficult situations that you face and find a purpose; a way that you can see the situation as an opportunity to grow? It is less about ‘figuring it all […]
‘Tis the season to be jolly, but if you are in the throws of a divorce, that may be the last thing you are feeling. This season of holiday gatherings, family celebrations and annual traditions may have you remembering happier days, tormenting over what should have been, or stewing about the injustices of your soon-to-be […]
Instead of dreading the holidays and wishing they would quickly pass, give yourself the gifts of gratitude, self-love and personal reinvention. Shift your focus, with anticipation, upon those doors that are opening before you and all that they might have to offer you...