By Lisa Brick Over the years it has become clear that there are powerful connections between marriage and divorce, hope, expectation, and intention. I come clean upfront. I am not a fan of hope or expectations. Many of our divorcing clients share a similar story; they hoped they could have reconciled with their spouse, their […]
By Lisa Brick What do you want? Once divorce is settled, life has become more predictable, and you are feeling ready to open yourself up to meeting new people the next step is often asking yourself what you want now, why you want it, and how you can intentionally create it? Something is missing though, […]
By Lisa Brick Divorce is a lonely and isolating process initially yet it does not have to remain that way. As confusing and painful as splitting up a marriage, a family, and a life can be, with the appropriate support the experience can be one of clarity, growth, and confidence. While this may sound impossible, […]
By Karen McMahon What causes us to lose our peace and joy? Financial instability. Complicated health issues. Sudden unexpected loss…of a loved one…a job…a relationship. Frustration or disappointment around raising teenagers or caring for elderly parents. Actually, it is more general than that. We lose our peace when people don’t act as we wish they […]
Guest Post by Sara Klar, Interior Designer Redecorating After Divorce It’s been a hard long day, work was difficult and you were back and forth numerous times with your attorney reviewing what your spouse is proposing. This really got you down. The moment you are most looking forward to, is when you can turn the […]
By Lisa Brick It is during agonizing and challenging times that the support of others is the most necessary and appreciated, and often the most difficult to find. It is painful enough to lose a spouse but to find those who you considered pals and confidants MIA (missing in action) on top of everything else […]
By Lisa Brick intimacy (n) in·ti·ma·cy[ íntəməssee ] close relationship: a close personal relationship quiet atmosphere: a quiet and private atmosphere detailed knowledge: a detailed knowledge resulting from a close or long association or study Both pleasure and pain are risks of intimacy post-divorce AND regardless of divorce. Beginning an intimate personal relationship where two […]
By Lisa Brick Sleep is an oft overlooked practice if you are to stay clear, focused, and effective while navigating divorce. Rather than it being a retreat from responsibility, sleep is a necessity in order to be responsible and responsive during and post divorce. While unusual amounts of time spent in sleep can indicate depression, […]
